๐Ÿ’ƒ HPL Guidebook May 2025: Table for One


Hey Reader,

Happy May! I hope you are getting ready to head off on new adventures whether those be from maximizing a long weekend or relaxing overseas for a week.

(And if you are traveling in the U.S., don't forget that Southwest's new luggage policy takes effect on May 28th, and you may need to focus on carry-on only in order to get free luggage. Need a hand with that? Try this.)

It's my birthday month, so I always have a soft spot for this time of year. It doesn't hurt getting some fun travel gifts ticked off my birthday wish list ๐Ÿ˜‰

Speaking of gifts...

I'm thinking about doing a couple of trainings very soon to help you with your packing. One will be a gift with purchase, and the other will be a gift-gift. I'll send you an email soon with more details!

Now on to the Guidebook topic!

I remember the struggle like it was yesterday: The dreaded question of, "How many?" when heading out to dinner ๐Ÿซ 

A big part of travel is getting to explore and eat at the best restaurants in a new destination. Being the best, however, means they are often the busiest.

And that can be super intimidating when you're there for a table for one.

I will say that it does get easier with practice, so be brave and make it a time to enjoy your own company. Plus, no one really cares about what you're doing except for you - it's true!

This guidebook is going to explore solo travel and taking part in activities alone - because sometimes you have to hit the road now instead of waiting for a day when someone else *might* be able to join you. ๐Ÿ’ƒ

From HPL

Traveling solo can be dauntingโ€ฆespecially if you've never done it before. We've got some advice to help you feel more at ease before your solo travels.

โœˆ๏ธ Don't let going alone keep you from traveling to less popular destinations. Learn how I gained the confidence to travel alone so that I could travel to off-beat destinations... and not always dine alone.

โœˆ๏ธ Don't let going alone keep you from feeling safe and secure. Try some of the practical safety tips here, and make your mind up on the controversial ones as well.

โœˆ๏ธ Don't let going alone make you feel like you need to pack more stuff. Instead, focus on bringing just what you need in a carry-on (or less) for all the reasons right here.

Around the Web

โœˆ๏ธ Eat Alone Like a Pro: Tips to Prepare Yourself for Solo Dining: Melissa of A Solo Woman Traveling shares some excellent advice for when you find yourself at a table for one. She includes tips for finding the best eateries to accommodate solo diners as well as how to make the process less awkward. (Hint - love the to-do list idea.)

โœˆ๏ธ How Women Over 50 Can Get Started in Solo Travel: Solo travel can happen at any age. This article from Journey Woman has loads of great insight.

โœˆ๏ธ Why EVERY Woman Should SOLO TRAVEL: There are so many reasons to travel solo. Kristin has been a popular voice in the solo female travel space, inspiring many to explore the world on their own terms.

Travel Trivia

Let Us Be Your Guide

Learn how to edit your packing list with our S.M.A.R.T. framework.

The Packing Refinery showcases the S.M.A.R.T. framework in action across 12 different packing lists. Once you get a sense for the framework, you can easily take it and apply to your own packing list.

On Our List

๐Ÿ’ƒ If you want to avoid dining alone when traveling alone, bring some travel-friendly cutlery like these utensils from Outlerly so you can picnic your lunch or dinner somewhere nice.

๐Ÿ’ƒ If having a backup place for some extra money feels nice when traveling solo, these scrunchies with a hidden pocket are great for storing a room key and some cash.

๐Ÿ’ƒ If you're concerned about feeling bored without a travel buddy, stay entertained with plenty of books to read on your Kindle or a travel journal to document your journey.

As Seen On

Tropicfeel has an ultralight backpack collection worth checking out. Their Scout backpack can range from 14 to 25L in volume (and it can go even further with their smart attachments). Best of all, the bag only weighs 580g (~ 20 oz), and lightweight luggage is a great idea especially when traveling solo.

ICYMI: Videos & Podcasts

How to Use Alterations to Make Clothes Travel-Friendly

Away She Goes Podcast: Packing Ultra-Light with Brooke Schoenman

The Girls Who Travel podcast interviewed me (back in November) and it's finally live.

Travel Like MacGyver

How to 'Jump the Line' & Reach Your Packing Light Goals Sooner

When you know what exactly to focus on in your packing journey first, you'll make faster, more meaningful gains towards your packing goals.

This Month's Picks

Some extra links and highlights... just for fun!

๐Ÿ“š Reading: Hawaii lawmakers raise hotel tax to help the state cope with climate changeโ€‹

๐Ÿ“š Reading: Disney announces new theme park plans in Abu Dhabiโ€‹

๐Ÿ“ฃ Recommendation: Check out the book Alone Time: Four Seasons, Four Cities, and the Pleasures of Solitude by Stephanie Rosenbloom if you need more inspiration for enjoying solo travel.

๐Ÿ‘€ Watching: This fun video showcasing one simple dress styled for an entire European getaway.

I hope you have enjoyed this edition of the HPL Guidebook!

Happy packing,

Brooke

P.S. And your trivia answer is: 72% of all solo travelers are women!

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